[CI] Add/update some system include paths (#7831)

.clang-tidy

@@ -63,15 +63,16 @@ Checks: >-
   -misc-non-private-member-variables-in-classes,
   -misc-no-recursion,
   -misc-unused-parameters,
-  -modernize-avoid-c-arrays,
   -modernize-avoid-bind,
+  -modernize-avoid-c-arrays,
   -modernize-concat-nested-namespaces,
   -modernize-return-braced-init-list,
   -modernize-use-auto,
   -modernize-use-default-member-init,
   -modernize-use-equals-default,
-  -modernize-use-trailing-return-type,
   -modernize-use-nodiscard,
+  -modernize-use-nullptr,
+  -modernize-use-trailing-return-type,
   -mpi-*,
   -objc-*,
   -readability-container-data-pointer,
@@ -82,6 +83,7 @@ Checks: >-
   -readability-isolate-declaration,
   -readability-magic-numbers,
   -readability-make-member-function-const,
+  -readability-named-parameter,
   -readability-redundant-string-init,
   -readability-uppercase-literal-suffix,
   -readability-use-anyofallof,