[api] Store YAML service names in flash instead of heap

Reduces memory usage for YAML-defined API services by storing service
names and argument names as pointers to string literals in flash instead
of heap-allocated std::string objects.

Implementation:
- Created UserServiceBase<Ts...> for YAML services (const char* storage)
- Created UserServiceDynamic<Ts...> for custom_api_device (std::string storage)
- Updated CustomAPIDeviceService to inherit from UserServiceDynamic
- UserServiceTrigger uses UserServiceBase (YAML-only)

Memory savings per YAML service:
- 0 args: 32 bytes (57% reduction)
- 2 args: 48 bytes (60% reduction)
- 5 args: 96 bytes (63% reduction)

Custom API device services maintain same memory footprint (no regression).

Typical ESPHome device (2-5 services): 100-240 bytes saved
High-service device (10+ services): 400-800 bytes saved

🤖 Generated with [Claude Code](https://claude.com/claude-code)

Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/integration/fixtures/api_user_services_union.yaml

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+esphome:
+  name: test-user-services-union
+  friendly_name: Test User Services Union Storage
+
+esp32:
+  board: esp32dev
+  framework:
+    type: esp-idf
+
+logger:
+  level: DEBUG
+
+wifi:
+  ssid: "test"
+  password: "password"
+
+api:
+  actions:
+    # Test service with no arguments
+    - action: test_no_args
+      then:
+        - logger.log: "No args service called"
+
+    # Test service with one argument
+    - action: test_one_arg
+      variables:
+        value: int
+      then:
+        - logger.log:
+            format: "One arg service: %d"
+            args: [value]
+
+    # Test service with multiple arguments of different types
+    - action: test_multi_args
+      variables:
+        int_val: int
+        float_val: float
+        str_val: string
+        bool_val: bool
+      then:
+        - logger.log:
+            format: "Multi args: %d, %.2f, %s, %d"
+            args: [int_val, float_val, str_val.c_str(), bool_val]
+
+    # Test service with max typical arguments
+    - action: test_many_args
+      variables:
+        arg1: int
+        arg2: int
+        arg3: int
+        arg4: string
+        arg5: float
+      then:
+        - logger.log: "Many args service called"
+
+binary_sensor:
+  - platform: template
+    name: "Test Binary Sensor"
+    id: test_sensor