Make SPI Ethernet (W5500) compatible with ESP-IDF v5 (#6778)

* change MAC PHY init order according to IDF examples

* add idfv5 specific w5500 config init

* esp_mac.h needs to be included directly starting with idf5

* Header fix

* Couple tweaks

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Co-authored-by: Keith Burzinski <kbx81x@gmail.com>

esphome/components/ethernet/ethernet_component.h

@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@
 #include "esp_eth.h"
 #include "esp_eth_mac.h"
 #include "esp_netif.h"
+#include "esp_mac.h"
 
 namespace esphome {
 namespace ethernet {